Wow.  What could possibly go wrong with this sweet, simple little question?

This conversation takes in everything from the mundane (such as giving yourself three days after writing an email before clicking ‘send’) through to the profound (such as how the question inspires an existential crisis and pleas to Buddha).

Getting sometimes confused and humble, but also managing to find some very sensible theories and tangible ideas, are:

Rog, from Curious Creatures;

Dossie Easton – author of The Ethical Slut (and various other progressive sexuality books), and counselor and relationships coach based in San Fransisco (dossieeaston.com); and

Anne Hunter, a relationships coach and polyamory specialist, in Melbourne, Australia (yourrelationshiptoolbelt.com).